My First Tandem Skydive!

“Life is all about the experiences.”

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Tandem skydiving is much easier than many other things I’ve done before. First off, you’re attached to an experienced sky diver who will guide you the entire time. I have always wanted to sky dive and knowing that many people have done it before, there was no reason to be scared. Although my face showed fear, I was pretty confident within that all would go well. But don’t get me wrong, sky diving is an exhilarating experience.

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My friend Joseph and I were the first to go for the day at around 10am. You’re first required to watch a safety video about how to skydive and you’re assured many times that it is dangerous, but that wasn’t stopping us! You’re then put into a jumpsuit and harness that is fitted tightly to your body size so you don’t go anywhere. You load onto the plane and watch as you keep going higher and higher. Between 13,000-14,000 ft above ground is where you jump.

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Jumping from that high up you’re going to be free falling for what feels like a lot longer than it actually is. It’s recommended to jump out of the plane smiling (with your teeth showing), not because they’re capturing every moment of you, but because it will be easier for you to breath. I did not have any trouble breathing, but my ears had a lot of pressure build up and they hurt a lot during the free fall. It’s actually 9 hours later now and I still can’t fully hear out of my left ear, but I feel it getting better. My left side was the one that went out of the plane first, so I think the pressure impact is why it was affected more than the other ear.

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Once the parachute went off, it was smooth gliding from there. You could direct the parachute to go left or right and even in circles, but watch out from getting to queasy! The view is amazing at this point and you really get to appreciate things. You no longer feel like a falling bird at this point, but rather a graciously falling bird. Although my ears suffered a little bit, if I had the opportunity, I would probably do sky diving again.

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Hi Dad! 23 years later…

When you mention you’re going to Portugal, most people ask – Are you going to Azores? Are you going to Lisbon? However my trip wasn’t just any ordinary vacation. It was a time to create new relationships and bonds with a (large) family I’ve never met. I’ve been to quite a few countries already, but this time I was traveling alone. Most people would say I’m brave, and while I know how to push through and hit an end goal, I have never been more terrified in my life to go somewhere. This trip was meant for me to meet my birth Father and two half brothers whom I grew up my whole life never knowing and the rest of my large family.

Growing up I was raised with my loving mother, and although I think it was the best way for me to be raised, I always wondered where the other half of me came from. I remember when I was in elementary school and my science teacher made us do a project at home where we had to have a photo of our Mom, Dad and Me and then show who we got our eyes, nose, lips, smile, shape face, etc from and everyone in the class knew because they were raised with both parents, except one other boy and I. I had always said “atleast I have a photo, so one day when I meet him I’ll know exactly who he is.”

Years later, after not being in contact with anyone from that side of the family, we (my mother and I) found one of my cousins on LinkedIn (I know of all websites). We exchanged emails and she gave me a family tree (thanks Claudia :D). Everything matched up and I knew it was real. It was also a coincidence that she was the only cousin I had a picture of, from years earlier. We exchanged facebooks and about a year later she introduced me to some other cousins who spoke with that side of the family more often. At this time I also found out I had two brothers (an older and younger) of which I didn’t know prior.

My cousins and I continued to stay in contact from time to time. On the 5 of May last year, I asked my cousin to wish my father a happy birthday. At that time I still had not talked to my brothers or had known what they look like. My cousins directed me to contact with my brothers (thanks Carlos!), where I got to speak with them on the first time the 6th of May (which also happens to be my birthday)!

Reaching contact with my long lost brothers was one of the greatest opportunities of my life. Growing up in different settings, with different moms, it’s amazing how alike others can be despite different cultures, different households, different ages, etc. I was so eager to meet them that I booked my flight as soon as I could and made my way to Portugal the following year.

When you go to meet family, specifically immediate family, for the first time, all anyone ever says is – that will be a great moment in your life, or something of the sort. They were right, meeting my family for the first time was the greatest moment in my life and more than that. My two weeks there were filled with lots of emotions – nervousness, anxiety, sadness, happiness, joy, excitement, peace, love and more. If you could envision an emotional roller coaster, that certainly was me. I had anxiety my entire way there and almost turned around, but I’m so glad I didn’t. I shared so many joyful memories with my brothers and step mom over those two weeks that I can never forget. Meeting my father was my dream come true, literally. I could go on and on about meeting a family for the first time, but instead I’ll end with this: life is only lived once and we shouldn’t let our fears keep us from following our dreams. Our lives aren’t limited by our fears and our dreams are only a leap of faith away. I’m not sure how I got so lucky as to meet my father, siblings, and experience such beautiful moments with these people across such a large ocean, but continuous prayer, my eye on the prize and a little help on from the internet got me there and I’m so glad it did.

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Cuenca, Ecuador

If you asked me if I thought I would ever study abroad, I would have said no. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to study abroad, I desperately want to travel the world, but I always thought I couldn’t afford it. Coming back from my trip I have learned there is no amount of money that could compare to what I experienced on my trip. This trip has become another turning point in my life and I can see myself doing it all over again. 

 
Day 1: After a much traveling, we finally made our way to Guayaquil, Ecuador. We were greeted with a van at the airport and drove our way to Cuenca, where we went straight into orientation at the El Nomad Center. 

 
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 Cuenca is 8000 ft above sea level, so altitude sickness can affect you, and hit me the first day. A lot of water and their delicious sugar cane candy made me feel 100% again. With El Nomad we were paired with a host family. My host family consisted of a woman named Sonia, a little man named Matias and his Mother. Sonia cooked us breakfast and lunch every day. It was so delicious. Many of the meals consisted of rice and chicken or some other type of meat. She served each meal with homemade juice as well. Here is the lunch she prepared for us on our last day there before we left:

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Everything I ate there was delicious! The fruits were incredibly fresh and full of flavor! One of the fruits we tried was called Granadilla (aka Passion Fruit). The Granadilla is a member of the passiflora and is native to South America. The shell is hard and shiny and inside there is a jelly pulp with black edible seeds. If you ever come across this fruit, I recommend you try it! Here’s a picture of what it looks like:

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The culture here has many local markets all around. These markets can even be found in the center of town. They have markets for flowers, fruits, meats, clothing, and more. There are also supermarkets, such as Supermaxi, however the markets sell items for cheaper. Here are some photos of the markets I came across:

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Turi is a small place within Cuena that welcomes tourism. Here you can find a huge swing that will place you atop the entire city. It is more exhilarating than a roller coaster! You can also see the entire city from up here and the mountains in the background.

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On the evening of Day 1 we had our group welcome dinner. We had a traditional dinner consisting of mote pillo, mote sucio, cuy, horchata and canelazo. Mote pillo and mote sucio are both made of hominy corn, however they use different ingredients when cooking. Cuy is also known as guinea pig. It is often eaten for celebrations or during the weekend. You can find restaurants that have this as their specialty. Horchata is not your typical rice made horchata, but instead it is made as a tea with many different herbs. Canelazo is a sugar cane shot, which can also be drank as a cocktail. I wouldn’t recommend drinking too much of this, as it may take a little longer to hit you.

Day 2: Breakfast consisted of toasted break with scrambled eggs with ham, cheese, guanabana juice and this milk where we poured in the coffee too. I’m not usually a coffee drinker, but this coffee was delicious! You are given a cup of warm milk and pour the coffee into it. After breakfast we went to El Cajas National Park. There are many different trails you can take here, we took the three our trail tour with a tour guide. This is an excellent hike for nature lovers, fitness junkies, and those who just love to explore! It is semi challenging, as you climb up and down. At one point we were at 12,800 ft above sea level!

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The llama was found outside a restaurant right outside the national park. My adventure for the day did not stop here. They say the best way to learn a city is to get lost in it, so that’s exactly what my roommate and I did. When we got back, we took a public bus to our home stay and although we did not get lost, we experienced the city more than we could otherwise.

Day 3: We began the day with another delicious breakfast (same as yesterday). The girls in the group decided to get their nails done today, so we went to the local nail salon. When treating yourself, prepare to leave about an hour or longer for each service. A manicure and pedicure together costs about $15 including design. The hand and foot massage they give you are excellent, best I’ve ever received. A haircut here is very cheap as well. I received a trim for my dead ends for only $7 and I have very long hair!

Later that day we began our work at the foundation. We were here only to observe and help where help was needed. I helped a little boy named Justin with his homework. At the center the children are given a meal, a snack, help with homework and playtime. The children here are filled with so much life and are eager to learn.

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Later that evening we went to try more traditional food. We went to eat empanadas at a small restaurant on Remigo Crespo. We tried empanadas carne (meat), pollo (chicken), verde (plantain), and queso (cheese). I also tried a traditional Ecuadorean hot dog here which had thin cut fries, peppers, and I believe also had ketchup, cheese and maybe a few other toppings. I also tried a beverage called morancho, a milk/rice drink. Since it was my roomies birthday, we went across the street for ice cream after to La Creperia Sorbetto. The ice cream was delicious and the service was excellent. Afterwords we walked home and stopped to take some tourist photos.

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Day 4: Today we went over to the market nearby the foundation to meet the parents of the children. Some of the parents sold fruits and veggies, some sold cooked corn, some polished shoes and others just pushed heavy groceries. We continued to work at the foundation today, where we broke into groups. One group taught the children about hygiene and healthy teeth, while the other groups painted the walls fresh.

Later that evening we had salsa dancing lessons. I knew the basics of salsa, however taking a salsa class improved my ability to dance better. We then went back to the crepes/ice cream place (La Creperia Sorbetto) we went to yesterday. This time I ordered crepes and it was delicious! Following that we went to a bar in town.

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Day 5: We began the day at the Pumapungo Ethnographic Museum. The ruins were well preserved and a great sight. Afterwards my roomie and I went to the Plaza Millennium. This reminded me of a small mall. there were three floors but each floor was fairly small. Here you could find electronic stores, a movie theater, clothing, food, shoes, a hair salon and more.

Later that day we did zumba in a nearby park. The culture here promotes health and by doing so they have exercise classes at nearly all the parks. Zumba here is like an intense Latin dancing class. It was so fun even though it ended early because of the pouring rain. Something everyone should try at least once during their trip here!

Since the zumba class ended early, we made our way to Parque Calderon, where we found the break dancers practicing. At various time you could catch the break dancers practicing or showing off some moves in the glorieta (gazebo).

Day 6: Our last day volunteering at the foundation has arrived. My time with the children here, although short, was more rewarding than any volunteer experience I ever had! They have forever impacted me in a way I could not be impacted by anyone else. Here are some photos I captured with the children and of the art I had the opportunity to paint on the walls.

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After the foundation that day we learned how to make empanadas and aji! They came out delicious!

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After we made our way back to Parque Calderon to get some break dancing lessons from the break dancers in the Wazy Style Crew! There was a larger crowd tonight and many more break dancers but we still were able to learn a few moves from them!

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Day 7: Our final full day! Today we explored Incapirca. We got to stand on the original Inca trail and see a rock in the shape of a face! We also tried Chicha (a drink made out of corn) and choclo (white corn).

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When back in Cuenca, we wanted to explore for a little longer. We had a friend walk with us through the city and gave us a little history of some of the things we saw. Some of the things we saw were La Cruz del Tomebamba or La Cruz del Vado (this is a cross named after a river for protection of the young ones crossing it).

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Ecuador has a massive street art movement. Here are some of the photos of art I captured.

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We then were given three different types of food wrapped in leaves. One was a humita, one was a tamale and the last was a quimbolito. The humita was my favorite! We ended the night exploring the nightlife. If you’re looking to explore night life while you are there, places are supposed to close at 2am, however there are some karaoke bars and other places that open up after 2 am or stay open until 4am.

Day 8: Our final hours have arrived. Today was a day for pure relaxation. We went to Pierda de Agua for a spa day. I purchased the bigger package. I first went into a steam room, then I had my massage (which was the BEST massage I have ever received and I go get massages about twice a year), then I was instructed to go into the mud bath and cover myself in mud. After I rinsed off and did an exfoliate bath and washed it off. Then I was sent to go into the hot tub for 10 minutes transfer to a cold tub for 1 minute, and repeat. Going from cold to hot gave a tingling sensation. We then were fed delicious fruits with melted chocolate and wine. We finished with a sauna box. Such a relaxing and great experience for an affordable price compared to the United States.

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Ecuador was an experience of a lifetime. Studying abroad with El Nomad has forever impacted my life and I hope to do it all over again one day! If you’re ever in South America, I would go and visit Ecuador and if you’re in Ecuador, go and visit Cuenca! The history, archetecture, art, kind people, delicious foods and more will make your time stayed well spent! Till next time Cuenca.

Hasta la proxima Cuenca!

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Photo Credit: Bek Summons

A special thanks to Bek, Arturo and Becca for leading such a great study abroad program! Another special thanks to Ms. Terre Lucas for introducing this program to UNCC and continuing to raise the bar! I would also like to thank Sonia for making amazing meals and providing us a place to stay and the friends I made along the way during my time in Ecuador. Last but not least thank you to all my friends and family that contributed in any way for making this trip happen!

If you have any additional questions about studying abroad or Cuenca, please don’t hesitate to ask.

Chasing Dreams

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Born into the most diverse city in the world, I was destine to meet and experience a little piece of each section in the world in one city, Queens, New York. As a young child, my mom worked three jobs but would still make time to bring me to the most fun places around town. On the weekends, I always remember my mom doing her best to make sure I was experiencing life in a way she couldn’t. She created the big dreamer within me.

I remember my first bucket list goal was at the age of 7. To meet my birth father and the rest of my family in Portugal. Sixteen years later that dream is on its way to come true (with a little help from the internet). At the age of 16 I moved to Charlotte, North Carolina. Moving during my junior year of high school was tough, but without it, I don’t think I would be the spontaneous dreamer I am today.

Around two years ago I transferred some of my major dreams onto a board that I look at everyday when I wake up. Little did I know, I was inspired to go out and do more of what I loved… Travel. Last year I knocked out about 1/3 of the items on my bucket list/dream board, and I’m now here to share with you as I knock out and add on many more things. Enjoy.

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